These past few months have been a whirlwind of things for me. Plenty of good, and plenty of bad. My dearest friend returned home from Ghana with her fiance. I am the maid of honor and get the pleasure of supporting their unity in marriage in just a couple of weeks. I have spent time with family, friends, and colleagues. Working my job, living life, and finding even more about who I am and how great God is. I continued to struggle with my eating disorder through spurts of lost control and stability. My yearning for freedom has been so strong these past few months that I grew tired of the subject of eating. I was tired of dealing with it, tired of talking about it, and tired that I still can't overcome it. I didn't want to fall prey to this weakness anymore. I wanted so bad to be done with it, I still do. I felt that people would grow tired of me talking about it too. I wanted so badly to be that statistic of someone who has overcome, an actual transformed testimony and not someone who was still in the process.
God has been speaking to me lately, even after a couple months of ignoring him due to my frustrations and ashamed feelings. Through some classes at church, and the help of my 2 dear friends who have given their Tuesdays up to pray with me and counsel me, I feel like I no longer need to be ashamed. I have learned a lot. First is that God is bringing out new gifts in me, ones I never thought I had. Leadership for example. As one who in the past was severely obsessed with what others thought of me, leadership wasn't exactly my stronghold. Second is that God has me exactly where He wants me. I have not delayed God's plans for me because of my eating disorder, God knew I would struggle with this and He has planned a perfect way in His perfect timing to get me out of it. What that looks like I don't know. What I do know is this, which leads me to my third and final thought, I need to get deeper.
A verse came to my mind a few months ago and has really stuck with me.
36 “Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?”37 Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’[a] 38 This is the first and greatest commandment. 39 And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’[b] 40 All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.” Matthew 22:36-40 (NIV)
I went to the doctor on Friday because I promised my family I would. I went there with expectations of getting a physical because I hadn't had one in a long time. I also had expectations that I would ask her questions about my obesity and learn more about what my obesity is doing to my body. I had so many questions and had them all printed up and ready for asking. As I was driving there I was getting increasingly excited and nervous. I felt like maybe this could be the slap in the face I needed to change my ways. When I got there, I was taken back to the doctor with in minutes of me sitting down. It was there I learned that they somehow messed up on my appointment and they didn't have me down as wanting to get a physical. I was really bummed at that, I really wanted to know how my body was doing. The nurse asked a few more questions and it wasn't long before the doctor came in. The second she came in she said, "Insurance doesn't cover asking questions, you will have to pay for this visit out of pocket." My hopes were shattered at the moment and I burst out into tears, a rarity in itself. I couldn't handle it anymore. I just wanted to ask my doctor a few questions, and hopefully receive the face slapping information that would spark some initiative to change my life. I was angry, frustrated, devastated, and sad. My doctors visit was a waste of time, and money. I left there crying even harder. I wanted to talk to someone, anyone about what just happened. When no one was available by phone, I decided to drive to my sisters house. As I was driving, God met me there. He said, "The doctors can't help you, only I can. Talk to me, grow deeper with me and I will help you" I was overwhelmed. It was there, through the tears, I knew that I have do what God is telling me to do. No more procrastinating. I need to get deeper with God.
So there you have it. A short summary of what has been going on in my life these past few months. I can officially say I have ended my writer's block! Thanks for the encouraging comments, they truly have been a blessing to me. May God bless each and every one of you!